tonight i told him i wanted to have a romantic night w/ him & he was drinking rum, so i asked him not 2 get drunk. he doesn’t get drunk often, but he took it the wrong way & thought i meant he gets drunk all the time. i tried 2 explain what i meant, but that just made it worse, & now we aren’t speaking. we live 2gether, so it’s really hard 2 deal w/ the silence from him. what should i do 2 make things better? i think i’m in love w/ him & don’t wanna lose him. please help me!
ok u r in a pickle but here’s wat u gotta do, first off apologize, be like baby im really sorry for what i said i take it all back and i just hope u can forget that and we can move on to have a wonderful night, and most of the time when u apologize first he feels bad to and he will admit his wrong. then just kinda talk really nice to him and give him some time to cool off
The rum has gotten to his mind!! Sleep it off, both of you, and talk it out in the morning. Tell him the honest truth and that you obviously didn’t mean it the way you said it. If he knows you well enough, he’ll completely understand and let things pass and you both will be fine again. If not, you may want to rethink your relationship and take things a little slower. Maybe you don’t know him as well as you THINK you do, but I hope that’s not the case. I personally think it was the rum getting to him.
well, no kidding. no man is going to stoop down to a girls level, to a girl, and your a girl.
sweetheart keep distance when things get heated up…… especially when alcohol is involved. Then sooner or later HE will come to YOU!!! YOU are the Princess, do not chase after a DRUNKEN LOSER (even if you really love him.) Just be demure, and patient, then when he sobers up he will realize what a fool he was. You are too precious for this drama, angel!!!!!!